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Raquel S. Pinder
Apr 27, 20204 min read
If the Roof is on Fire, of Course you Need Water, Silly!
I know people of my pigmentation and churchgoers alike, may never agree, but hear me when I say this, "Therapy is NOT only for the person...
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Raquel S. Pinder
Apr 21, 20206 min read
Date, Break-up, Repeat - The Single Girl Insanity
If you Goggle the girl that held on too long, you'd probably find my photo. I'm not proud of it, but hey (shrugs shoulders) knowing is...
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Raquel S. Pinder
Apr 14, 20207 min read
All Relationships are NOT Created Equal!
"Why I oughta kick that dirtbag square in his....." says every best friend, to her inconsolable gal-pal as she balls her eyes out over...
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Raquel S. Pinder
Apr 7, 20206 min read
Does Marriage Live up to the Hype?
If you're reading this article in search of the answer to this question, sorry, you won't find it here. I'm single, what the heck do I...
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Raquel S. Pinder
Mar 31, 20205 min read
We Might be Concerned about the Wrong Edges!
When it comes to a woman's hair, it is said to be her crown, her glory, the essence of her beauty. But honey, to be without edges is as...
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Raquel S. Pinder
Mar 24, 20206 min read
What if I could Order a Man like Coffee?
"You want a tall, triple non-fat latte, half-caff, caramel drizzle, extra hot, extra shot, a' WHAT?" Ahh, the flow of those words is like...
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Raquel S. Pinder
Mar 17, 20207 min read
Your Life Ain't No Offering Pan!
Touch your neighbour and say, "It's giving time!" (crickets). All my church folks know that the atmosphere can get really tight and...
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Raquel S. Pinder
Mar 10, 20206 min read
Why Your 'Mouth' May Not Be Ready for Marriage!
We have at one time, or the other heard someone say, "I don't give two hoots what you say about me!" When I hear that, I automatically...
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Raquel S. Pinder
Mar 3, 20207 min read
It’s NOT Eve’s Fault Your Life is a Mess!
"You wait til' I get to heaven, I ga' tell Eve bout her........!" Hey, you! Pique down, missy! Can we please, for the love of God, let...
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Raquel S. Pinder
Feb 25, 20206 min read
Why I Can't Stand Boaz!
If it isn't bad enough that I've yet to subscribe to my lifetime membership of cuffing season, I am well into my 30's and still out here...
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Raquel S. Pinder
Feb 18, 20206 min read
Make 'Single-hood' Great, Again!
I ain't calling no names, but 'someone' got the notion that home of the Star-Spangled Banner is no longer fit to be called 'great'!...
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